Monday, November 12, 2012

One Year Ago Today...

November 12, 2011

I woke up relatively early in a room with a few of my favorite ladies. We lounged around for a bit and then loaded up to head to the Reception venue to set up, get our hair and make up done. 

The day flew by and before I knew it we were at the church and my Mama was helping me into the prettiest dress I'll ever wear and the veil she had worn herself just 34 years earlier.

My then future husband was getting dressed as well, while people filed through the door and took their seats. Then our family and wedding party began to walk down the aisle...

Processional - Canon in D (Pachelbel)
Kyle escorting Kenny's Grandparents

Nathan escorting my Grandparents

Kyle escorting Kenny's Parents



Nathan escorting Mama

Matt and Nate

Kyle and Kenny

Chandra

Erica

Abby

Bridal Processional - Prince of Denmark's March (Clark)
Me and my Dad 



The Word of God
Father McKee began to speak and there was no turning back, not that I wanted to anyway.

During the Declaration of Concent

Who gives this woman to be married to this man? "Her mother and I" - and then we were alone.

Collect for Marriage 
O gracious and everliving God, you have created us male and female in your image: Look mercifully upon this man and this woman who come to you in seeking your blessing, and assist them with your grace, that with true fidelity and steadfast love they may honor and keep the promises and vows they make; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who live and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

First Reading - Song of Solomon 2:10-13, 8:6-7

My cousin Layna doing our first reading
 Psalm 67

Second Reading - 1 Corinthians 13:1-13

Husband's cousin Megan doing our second reading

Psalm 128

Holy Gospel - John 2:1-11

Homily

Father McKee's Homily

Solemn Vows

Exchanging vows
Exchanging Rings
Those whom God has joined together let no one put asunder.

Prayers
Let us pray.

Eternal God, creator and preserver of all life, author of salvation, and giver of all grace: Look with favor upon the world you have made, and for which your Son gave his life, and especially upon this man and this woman whom you make one flesh in Holy Matrimony. Amen.

Give them wisdom and devotion in the ordering of their common life, that each may be to the other a strength in need, a counselor in perplexity, a comfort in sorrow, and a companion in joy. Amen.

Give them grace, when they hurt each other, to recognize and acknowledge their faults, and to seek each others forgiveness and yours. Amen. 

Bestow on them, if it is your will, the gift and heritage of children, and the grace to bring them up to know you, to love you, and to serve you. Amen.

Grant that all married persons who have witnessed these vows may find their lives strengthened and their loyalties confirmed. Amen.

Grand that the bonds of our common humanity, by which all your children are united one to another, and the living to the dead, may be so transformed by your grace, that your will may be done on earth as it is in heaven; where, O Father, with your Son and the Holy Spirit, you live and reign in perfect unity, no and for ever. Amen.

Blessing of the Marriage

God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit, bless, preserve, and keep you.

Holy Communion

Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and make good your vows to the Most High.

O God, the giver of all that is true and lovely and gracious: We give you thanks for binding us together in these holy mysteries of the Body and Blood of your Son Jesus Christ. Grant that by your Holy Spirit, Kendra and Kenneth, now joined in Holy Matrimony, may become one in heart and soul, live in fidelity and peace, and obtain those eternal joys prepared for all who love you; for the sake of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Recessional - Allegro Giocoso (Handel)

Hey! We are married! YAY!
Happy 1st Anniversary to the neat guy I get to hang out with everyday.

Friday, November 9, 2012

Sandy, Athena, and Sophie Jean

I know that everyone is very well aware of the nasty Miss Sandy, we survived.

Winter Storm Athena roared through our neighborhood on Wednesday...


This is the only picture I took, because I only went outside once and I wanted a glove back on my cold little hand, but we survived.


Yesterday I received a frantic call from my other half, our doggie Sophie Jean wasn't feel well. This is not normal for our little girl, she's been extremely healthy and minus the troubles caused by our previous landlords...read about it here.

We take her for regular check ups, she gets her necessary medicines (flea, tick, heart worm), all in all she is a happy and healthy doggie.

So, being that this was out of the ordinary we rushed her to the vet where we were told (after some crazy expensive test!) that she was suffering from pancreatitis. She would need to be admitted to the pet hospital for overnight care, then returned the following day for continued care. 

We took her over to the same hospital that saw her for the above mentioned incident. She was admitted and we went home, helpless. As crazy as might sound, Miss Sophie Jean has filled my life with love for nearly 8 years. My husband has become incredibly attached to her and we just felt horrible. She wasn't there to keep my feet warm or to snuggle with us on the couch, it was a sad sad night.

This is what she looked like when we picked her up this morning at 7am


They had to put the cone on her because she was chewing at the IV in her right front leg, poor thing.

She was dropped off at the Vet at 9am and we will pick her up before 7pm tonight, she is expected to make a full recovery.

So, we will survive!!

Bring it on life, this little family can handle it all!

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Sandy: Between the Facebook Posts

October 29, 2012 7:25am
"The wind is picking up a bit and work is officially cancelled."

The wind was really blowin by this time, I was honestly surprised at how loud and constant it was all day. The wind in Oklahoma is steady on a daily basis, but not quite like this. We just sat around all day watching the news and waiting...and waiting...basically the exact opposite of a tornado! 

October 29, 2012 6:38pm
"I think it's almost here...wind is really blowin now. Just praying the trees don't blow over..."

We have a large tree in the backyard and two in the front. I was very scared that one or all of them were going to come directly into our house. We don't have a garage so we were also hoping that both of our cars would stay damage free during the storm. One was parked in the driveway and the other we parked down the street, as far away from the trees as possible.

October 29, 2012 11:06pm
"just lost power :( going to bed and hoping this calms down by tomorrow"

I'm honestly shocked that we didn't lose power earlier, seriously. We packed up our stuff and moved to the bedroom for the night, hoping for the best in the morning.
 
October 30, 2012 10:53am
"We are so blessed! We made it through the storm, so far. The wind and rain is still going, but it's dying down. We don't have power and our phone lines are out, I'll keep everyone posted via Facebook as long as we have cell phone towers.

Thanks for all the prayers and well wishes!"

 I was so extremely excited that our house wasn't damaged. Our cars made it through with only some minor scratches and crapload of leaves on them. We spend the majority of the day talking to the neighbors and listening to the news. The paper wasn't delivered so we had only seen a few pictures of the damage online...like these...

This is the PATH station in Hoboken. I have walked by that elevator, put my Metrocard in, and rode the train to Manhattan or back to Jersey City.

This is Point Pleasant, NJ ... the beach we took my parents and brother to during their trip in NJ...it kinda looked liked this...

Sunny, warm, and a very clean beach.

October 30, 2012 6:33pm
"We are still here and doing well! the apartment has stayed rather warm and we stocked up on candles before the storm.

I'm so bored that i have started to reorganize my closet by candlelight, but thank god we are safe and we had no damage to our personal belongings.

 Please pray for those that lost their home, cars, and even their lives to this horrible storm."

We had spent part of the day cleaning out our two spare bedrooms, of course this could only be done during the daylight hours. I did do my closet at night with the help of 6 candles and 1 amazing flashlight, it looks mighty awesome. 

We also realized that everything in the fridge was done or almost done. So we cooked up an entire package of turkey bacon. I ate my on a sammich with some mayo, husband added some cheese to his. 

We through everything else away, our greatest loss.

October 30, 2012 10:21pm
"Wanna test your cooking skills? Try unplugging your fridge, microwave, and toaster oven! Fun times.

We are officially out of refrigerated and frozen food, minus a small cooler that we are hoping stays frozen until we get power. Time to bust out the Ramen noodles! yum!"

I found out that you can toast bread in a skillet and it actually tastes better.

October 31, 2012 7:27am 
"Work is closed again today and we still have no electricity. The houses on the next block have power and they predict that we will get it back today.

I guess we are lucky to live near a major post office, NJ Transit Railway, and two busy roads. Right now, I would much rather hear the sounds of the train...the emergency sirens are just overwhelming as I think about where they could be going."

By this point calling to see if work was open was partial hope for a place to go to keep warm and the other part was fear of how horrible I would like if I were to go in. I hadn't been able to use a blow dryer in days and the ponytail look was gettin old. 

The entire neighborhood was hopeful for power soon. Directly to the west about two blocks is a major sorting center for USPS and we can also see the railway. We spend hours discussing this with our newly found neighbor friends.

October 31, 2012 4:15pm
"Keeping myself occupied with this awesome book! seriously, highly reccomend it!"

If your not a major baseball fan, or at least a fan of the Mets, you probably don't know who R.A. Dickey is...hey I didn't until we saw him pitch in 2011 at CitiField! I probably actually saw him pitch while he was in the minor leagues in OKC, but I can't be sure. This book is a great read for anyone that loves baseball and/or needs a little hope that there are people that are still willing to dream and work hard for their dream. 

The Mets just signed R.A. for another year! whoop! 

October 31, 2012 4:36pm
"classy dinner time...still waiting on power"


Horrible dinner, horrible. I have 6 of these in my pantry and they make me sick everytime I look at them. 

October 31, 2012 4:49pm
"Obama says we will get power back today...he best be right, my toes are gettin cold!!"

A few hours earlier we heard Marine 1 and the other helicopters fly over our area...how crazy is that? I never thought I'd be in a natural disaster zone and have the President fly over. He stopped off in Wayne to see the flooding and then down the Jersey Shore. I wonder if the people of Staten Island, Long Island, and Hoboken are pissed. Just a thought. 

October 31, 2012 8:36pm
"turning the electricity on in 15 second intervals is just plain mean. come back sweet power!!!"

While reading the book pictured above the pretty lights in our apartment came on! We could hear our downstairs neighbors celebrating, even some whoops from across the street...and then blackness. 

About 5 minutes later we rinsed and repeated the same story above. 

And the power stayed off.

October 31, 2012 11:03pm 
"Still no power...Obama promised power to JC by the end of the day. You have ONE hour mister!!" 

Husband went to bed and I held out hope that the promise President Obama felt he needed to make during his press conference earlier that day would actually come true...all of Jersey City would have power by the end of the day! 

**Spoiler Alert**
It didn't come back on...and still isn't on for some people in Jersey City.

November 1, 2012 10:27am
"3rd day without power. Work is open, but the roads to get there are blocked. It's starting to get chilly in here...we might have to put a sweater on Miss Sophie Jean!"

I woke up Thursday morning to learn that work was open, but the roads to get there were blocked or were at a standstill. I also learned that I had a migraine. I think that it was from the tension of sleeping in house that was around 50°F.

My father-in-law had to work at the airport that morning so he offered to come by and pick me up...they have a generator so their house was at least 68°F or warmer!

We had to detour a number of times and I saw a few parts of Newark that I hadn't seen before, but we made it out there. I was able to work a little bit and finally saw some pictures of the damage.

I couldn't believe what I was seeing. I heard that Hoboken was flooded, but I could see the restaurants, bars, and the PATH station that I have been to with water still high. I learned from facebook that Point Pleasant was bad, but to see the reporter walking down the same beach I had sat on just 4 months ago was crazy.

Not too long ago I took a flight to California from JFK and I could see the streets and homes in the area that were damaged...

November 1, 2012 5:02pm
"finally made it out to the in-laws house where they have a generator! yippee!! still no power at our house (17 hours after we were promised!)

Continued prayers for those in Hoboken, Staten Island, Brooklyn, Queens and the entire Jersey Shore...damage is beyond belief and imagination.

We just were informed that gasoline will only be given to Police, Fire, Utility Companies, etc...NJ and surrounding areas will suffer a great shortage in the coming days." 

Mr. E came to join me and Sophie at my in-laws house for a nice warm dinner! 

A lot of the places you see on TV I have been to and a lot of them I haven't been to, but to see the people that literally lost everything is heart breaking. 

I spent the first part of the evening working and after dinner I just sat and stared at the TV as Mayor Bloomberg said that the Marathon was still going to take place, but that lower Manhattan shouldn't expect power before the end of the weekend. All of this was signed by the worlds most enthusiastic English/ASL translator I have ever seen...and then translated by the Mayor himself in amazingly horrible Spanish.

The Governor of New Jersey gave constant updates about the status of New Jersey, the state that took the brunt of the blow of Sandy. Chris Christie is a bad word in my husband's family, since he attacked the Firefighters, but overall I have to say that his attitude and blunt nature is appreciated by this gal, in this situation at least. He was upfront and didn't hold much back...especially to the Mayor of Atlantic City.

November 1, 2012 6:44pm
"I cannot believe they are going to have this event (NYC Marathon). As an aspiring runner that would one day love to run this exact race it's obviously not because I dislike the road closures or the sound of a starting gun. Way to go Bloomberg"

For reals, dumb move. I'm glad they opted to cancel. Many of the runners are helping to clean up after the storm. KUDOS!

November 2, 2012 11:15am 
"On our way back to the apartment, we hear we have power now! whoop! 

Drove behind these wonderful people! thanks for the extra ambulances Philly!"

I can't get the photo off of facebook from some reason, oh well. Our neighbor texted early in the AM to let us know that the power had been turned back on! WHOOP! 

We ate some breakfast at then started the trip back to Jersey City, many detours and alternate routes later we pulled up to see that we did in fact have power! Oh, sweet power! 

November 2, 2012 2:16pm
"I have to say that my favorite things about this situation are the nice neighbors that we have met and Mayor Bloomberg's horrible Spanish, it's hilarious!"

If you happened to catch SNL I hope you saw the impression of Mayor Bloomberg, while I found it to be just a bit racist and I know they wouldn't have ever done the same skit in the wake of Katrina, the Spanish part was quite funny.

All in all, I hope that my first hurricane is my last. It wasn't Golden and it wasn't great. I will selfishly choose power and a dry home any day.

My in-laws finally got power back on November 4th and many others still do not have power. I am sure that NJ and NY will be recovering from this storm for a long time to come. I pray for those that lost everything, for those that still don't have power as the weather gets colder.